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The 3rd child?

So on the weekend my husband bought up the ‘3rd’ child question….

We currently have a 3yo boy and a 17mo girl. I feel complete, and extremely blessed. One of each is perfect for me. I have enough time with each and was questioning how would I manage another? We are in a great routine, they play so well together, they both sleep through the night, they adore each other, why ‘rock the boat’ so to speak.

Well firstly I was extremely shocked that my hubby bought this subject up, as he was the one that never wanted children. I basically gave him the ultimatum. He knew that when he proposed he was definitely having babies with me. He still proposed so he must not have worried too much about this.

Once we had our little man he then again said, no more babies I want my wife back and one is plenty, well again we had a chat and yes, we now also have a daughter. We have 2 amazing, gorgeous, smart, fun, happy and healthy little people. I feel completely besotted by them and am happy with the 2 children so you can imagine the shock when hubby bought up a third.

He was away last week for business and clearly missed us. His conversation Saturday went something like this.
‘Babe, do you ever get a pang for another baby?’

Well I nearly fell off my chair and replied, ‘yes I do, but I thought we agreed that the 2 that we have are perfect?’.

Hubby’s response, ‘after being away the past week I really missed you, little man and princess, I was thinking about having a third with you, would you consider it? Would you put your body through it again?’ (FYI, I get really bad morning/ all day sickness, with complicated pregnancy and difficult to actually fall pregnant)

My response, ‘I would put my body through it, absolutely, but we have 2 amazing little ones, do we really want a third?’

Hubby, ‘Hmmm I know, I just think how great a mum you are, how much our kids adore you and how beautiful our kids are, gives me pangs’.

Me, ‘Hmmm’.

So this was never a position I thought I’d be in. I’m pretty sure I’m completely happy with 2, I am one of 3 and remember that one of my siblings was always left out. I feel like 2 always play together and 1 is on the outer? Not sure. I think I’d want 4 rather than 2.

I know I have enough love.

We will see…..

http://www.scarymommy.com/the-day-i-fell-in-love-with-having-two/?utm_source=FB

So much happening!

So much happening!

Firstly my apologies for being a little ‘vacant’ lately. I think it’s been 2 weeks since my last post? I try to post weekly but there has been so much happening I’ve been distracted.

Where to start then?

Well we are renovating and I’m more than happy with the progress. We have painted our ‘timber’ kitchen white and the finished product is awesome! It feels so clean and fresh! It’s amazing what a ‘lick of paint’ can do to a room. It’s a small cost for a huge change!

We are also extending our back deck. It was 500cm X 300cm. Once it’s finished it will be 700cm X 360cm! Giving us a much better use of space and a better view of our back yard. The old deck was also a semi circle which wasn’t very user friendly. The new one will be rectangular. So excited!

I’ve also been busy getting other quotes for other various works that we would like to do to our home.

Had a little bit of family dramas, hubby has been over seas for work and I also recently joined a gym. I haven’t trained since I found out that I was pregnant with my little guy. When I worked it out, I haven’t done any proper exercise or a ‘work out’ as such for 44 months!

All this and still being a SAHM (stay at home mum) to my little man who has just turned 3 and my little girl who is now 5 months old. Where has the time gone….?!?!

I’m loving being back at the gym however I have been suffering ‘mummy guilt’. I try to do 2 classes per week and as I don’t have any ‘help’ as such as hubby works long hours, my little ones go to the crèche.

I feel horrible doing it but I try to rationalise with myself. They are both with me 99% of the time. My little girl is always with me but my 3yo goes to preschool 9am – 2:45pm one day per week.

I guess most mothers go through similar emotions right?

On the other hand though, I never have time to myself. Which I’m not complaining about as I wouldn’t have it any other way 🙂 but I think doing 2 classes per week is ok? Each class is only 45 minutes. Is that mean on my behalf?

So this post is basically my apologies for not writing sooner and to ‘dob’ myself in. I am a dedicated person and do ‘stick’ to things if I start them. I am also more likely to stay on track if I have told someone about my plans. I guess that’s my personality also, I don’t like to let others down and I like to do what I say.

I will also write about my fitness progress and as I experiment with new healthy recipes, I will blog them.

No this won’t be a ‘fitness / diet’ blog. I will still write about anything and everything but I will also keep you updated on my progress!

Until my next check in 😉 xx

Capturing Pregnancy

Pregnancy photos.

So recently I had some gorgeous pregnancy photos taken. I was sceptical at first as I didn’t have them taken with my little man (first child) and felt a little guilty (mummy guilt) about having them done with my little miss and not with my little man, however a lovely friend of mine is a photographer and asked if she could take some photos of me.

After much trepidation – as with most pregnant women, I don’t feel sexy or attractive and still carry the ‘mummy guilt’ of doing the photos with one and not the other. I accepted.

The photos are amazing!

I cannot recommend having pregnancy photos taken enough.

Yes I still felt unattractive, big tummy, dermatitis, I happen to have a cold sore, bloating, kankles etc but, my friend included my little man in the photos also which are super cute, having him involved with holding my tummy and kissing it made it all very special.

She has a wonderful eye for detail and captured these very special moments.

I’m currently 34 weeks pregnant and was not only able to get some amazing photos of my bump, but also of my little man sitting with my bump and being affectionate towards it.

If you get the opportunity I highly recommend you get find photos taken, professionally or not and they don’t have to be in underwear etc, I was fully clothed.

My friend who took mine I also highly recommend, not only did she help me to feel at ease – I’m certainly not a poser and generally feel awkward having photos taken, but she managed to capture moments that are natural. Me and my little man interacting and playing which I really like rather than perfectly posed.

These times are special and I think it’s nice to have something for them, not only memories but something a little more.

If you would like your pregnancy captured in gorgeous natural photos, Please contact Motherhood in Focus

At the moment you can see her photos in an online gallery through Pixiset.

http://motherhoodinfocus.pixieset.com

Or email her for a chat to either discuss a possible photo shoot or options. Either way, if I have another child – I will defiantly have more photos and memories capture these special moments.

motherhoodinfocus@gmail.com.